Right. It’s time to write about something important. Or well, I won’t really write about it. At least not much. Here’s the deal: I’ve separated with my fiancée. It happened quite a while ago, but I’m still not that comfortable talking about it. As far as I know, my parents are still unaware, and I live in their house.
We’re still friends though. In fact, I’m going to visit his place tomorrow. This isn’t a drama break-up, although things are slightly awkward at times.
And as for the question “why?”, let’s just say it’s a very long story and I don’t want to go into details about it. This post is mostly because it had to be said.
The stupid thing is that we get along so much better since we separated. It’s silly how things like that work sometimes.
WHAAAAAI?!
Ajdå, det var tråkigt. Men det låter ju bra att ni fortfarande är vänner och att det funkar för er.
I hope things work out for the best and this separation turns out to be one of the best decisions of your life!
Oh, gosh, that’s quite the fact you’ve stated!
Wow, I’m glad that it wasn’t a drama filled breakup, though — I could never, ever imagine talking to my exes again. I hate them too much, LMAO.
Would your parents freak out if they knew you two weren’t ‘together’ anymore …?
I don’t know if they would. I think they’d be sad, though. My sister was sad (yes she knows, and for all I know, she might have told them). I don’t fear a freak-out, I’m just not comfortable talking about it which makes it really awkward because everyone (myself included) will get all sad and moody and… meh ^^; Perhaps they’ve already figured out since I haven’t been wearing my engagement ring for quite a while now.
I am very sorry to read that. I hope things get better for you, and you have my very best wishes! *hugs*
I think if I was in your situation I’d act the same.. sometime people realize things even if you don’t talk about them; and then they know not to talk about it.
So is it permanent separation? *virtual hug*
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I think it is, yes. But I value him very much as a friend and hope I’ll be able to keep him as one. And I’m still looking forward to missvanity ^_^
Sorry to hear about you and your ex. How do your parents not know though, if you live in their house? Was he not around much or something that they’d not notice him not around, or is he still around a lot?
Considering him being around here, they don’t really have anything to compare with, since I’ve only just recently moved into their house. I still see him quite a lot though, so they know I spend a lot of time at his place.
Thanks for the comments!
It’s really sweet of you all to take the time to send me support, and I really appreciate it.